Too young.
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Started conversation Mar 14, 2012
I knew it was bad news when my Mum was ringing me. I also knew my cousin had been taken into hospital last weekend.
He was just back from a snow-boarding weekend with his son - he wasn't feeling the best, had been losing weight (but had been on a diet so was feeling Ok about that aspect). But his wife grew concerned and took him to hospital last weekend. They kept him in, put him on a drip, diagnosed some sort of lymphoma, but they needed to do a biopsy to find out more details.
His major organs failed yesterday afternoon, and he died.
The whole family is in shock - he was 47, the youngest of me and my cousins. Always full of life, guaranteed to be the joker in the group, loved his job as a police driver/ biker.
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Posted Mar 14, 2012
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Posted Mar 14, 2012
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Post 18
Posted Mar 14, 2012
Thank you all so much for your support - it really means a lot.
It's really hard - I called his mother tonight - my godmother, who's always been a huge rock and positive support for me and my own children. I couldn't begin to imagine how it must feel to lose your youngest child.
I didn't get speaking to her - the house was full. But I spoke to my uncle, a normally cheery, euphonium playing stalwart of the caravan club. He could barely string a sentence together.
My sister is in London, feeling very very far away from this close knit family.
I got upset by my Mum this evening, who, when I rang to ask "How are you feeling?" interpreted my call as "When's the funeral?". And then I remembered that I hate that question, and always prefer to deal in practicalities rather than emotions.
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Post 19
Posted Mar 16, 2012
I'm taken aback by the grace and strength of my godmother.
Being a cop in Norn Irn is still a risky occupation - she commented yesterday:
"He wasn't shot - he didn't have his life taken away by someone else. It wasn't violent. It wasn't in a horrific car accident after a high speed chase. He didn't know how ill he was - none of us did. But he didn't suffer"